Unless you're about to follow that up with 'brought us all here' - which, no offense Brett, I'm not sure you're capable of - then whatever you're saying, whatever you're thinking is all self blame and complete bull.

[And going in that direction sure as hell won't change a single thing.]

You helped him. You calmed him down so he didn't go to his death in some asbent-minded haze. Showed him someone cared enough to bother.