That's sort of my job as well - I just do what I can to make sure everyone is doing as well as they can be. I make them clothes and other gifts often, and I make sure to listen if anyone is having a bad day. They know they can come to me with whatever problems they're having, and I like that.

But... I do think you're right, in that knowing you can get through things is a lot of the fight. It's how I've made it through a lot, honestly.