Hey, I don't speak up for the sole purpose of announcing how pragmatic I am and how I'm not interested in talking about the thing everyone is currently talking about, and then go on about "need to know basis." I've told you that I'm not going to make you talk about anything, you're the one insisting that I'm insisting we meet anywhere.

Besides, you're the one who was going on to me about how nice and fucking fuzzy it makes you feel when everyone is on the same page and you can trust them beyond the scope of a job. If you're not extending that to us, that's more than fair. Just a job, no trust involved. Take the out and don't talk. This isn't hard.